{"id":1425,"date":"2020-12-29T16:42:17","date_gmt":"2020-12-29T16:42:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/?p=1425"},"modified":"2021-03-15T18:51:34","modified_gmt":"2021-03-15T18:51:34","slug":"unless-you-say-so","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/2020\/12\/29\/unless-you-say-so\/","title":{"rendered":"UNLESS YOU SAY SO"},"content":{"rendered":"<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-1425-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/UNLESS-YOU-SAY-SO.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/UNLESS-YOU-SAY-SO.mp3\">http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/UNLESS-YOU-SAY-SO.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>MAKE PEACE WITH YOURSELF<\/em><\/span><\/h4>\n<h5>Unless you say so, mistakes don&#8217;t happen.<br \/>\nUnless you say so, errors are relative.<br \/>\nUnless you say so, there are no accidents.<br \/>\nUnless you say so, nothing happens too soon or too late.<\/h5>\n<h5>You see Baby, all of the above is based on opinion, which might not be yours.<br \/>\nAnd opinion is just something someone thinks, based on what feels good.<br \/>\nYou can always change your mind and make life easier, more peaceful, more valuable.<\/h5>\n<h5>When you have an opinion that something is really great,<br \/>\nIt doesn&#8217;t haunt you,<br \/>\nIt doesn&#8217;t worry you,<br \/>\nYou don&#8217;t fret about it,<br \/>\nYou don&#8217;t try to figure it out,<br \/>\nAnd you certainly don&#8217;t try to fix it.<\/h5>\n<h5>When your opinion is that something is wrong, bad, incorrect, or mistaken,<br \/>\nThen you go through mental, physical, and emotional contortions,<br \/>\nStruggling to make it right, fix it, or cope with it.<\/h5>\n<h5>Then, because you can\u2019t change it, you stew in your own juices<br \/>\nAnd they eventually ferment into a stroke, a heart attack, cancer, etc.<\/h5>\n<h5>Wouldn&#8217;t it be better for you to simply stop \u201csaying so\u201d?<br \/>\nWouldn\u2019t it be better to simply change your opinion? It\u2019s just something<br \/>\nYou made up, anyway.<\/h5>\n<h5>Now, we&#8217;re not talking about monumental things, like a Nazi ethnic cleansing.<br \/>\nWe&#8217;re talking about table etiquette, colorful jokes, the name of a flower, or<br \/>\nWhich direction the toilet paper is \u201csupposed to\u201d unroll.<\/h5>\n<h5>You know, stuff that really doesn\u2019t make any difference to the quality of life.<\/h5>\n<h5>One more time, Baby Love, the only thing you have to lose is<br \/>\nWorry, frustration, upset, grinding teeth, and bad dreams.<br \/>\nAll because you are attached to your opinion being right.<\/h5>\n<h5>Hey! No one will listen, anyway.<\/h5>\n<h5>Honey Child, just give it up, smile sweet and keep it to yourself.<br \/>\nNon-confrontation ends with Peace.<\/h5>\n<h5>05\/04\/18<\/h5>\n<h5><a href=\"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/UNLESS-YOU-SAY-SO.pdf\">DOWNLOAD PDF<\/a><\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MAKE PEACE WITH YOURSELF Unless [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-happiness-hopes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1425","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1425"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1425\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2723,"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1425\/revisions\/2723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1425"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1425"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1425"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}