{"id":1545,"date":"2021-01-10T08:03:00","date_gmt":"2021-01-10T08:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/?p=1545"},"modified":"2021-01-05T20:04:18","modified_gmt":"2021-01-05T20:04:18","slug":"the-mad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/index.php\/2021\/01\/10\/the-mad\/","title":{"rendered":"THE MAD"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>WHERE DOES IT COME FROM?<\/em><\/span><\/h4>\n<h5>The girl ran up the snow-covered walk and banged on the<br \/>\nfront door. \u201cAunt Sis, let me in!&#8221; she yelled. &#8220;We need to talk<br \/>\nright now!&#8221; She beat on the door as it creaked open.<\/h5>\n<h5>Aunt Sis frowned, \u201cWhat on Earth is the matter Dear?&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cYou&#8217;ve made her mad again! This time you <em>have<\/em> to apologize!\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;Oh, my. Well, come in. We&#8217;ll sit by the fire and have a nice cup of tea.&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;It&#8217;s <em>different<\/em> this time, Aunt Sis. You have to go apologize!\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>Sis ushered the girl into the house and closed the door. Brushing snow off the girl&#8217;s<br \/>\ncoat, Sis said, \u201cPardon me, dearest, but tell me, where is <em>The Mad<\/em> located?<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;She&#8217;s mad all over, and you made her that way!&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>Sis hugged the girl. \u201cNow, now, Dearest. If your mother has <em>The Mad<\/em> all over her,<br \/>\nseems to me it is her mad.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>The girl flinched away. \u201cBut you made her that way because of what you did!\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cWell, my goodness. It&#8217;s not the first time. Just whatever did I do that has the power to<br \/>\nset off a full grown woman?\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cShe said that you ignored her good advice.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>Sis chuckled, gathered the girl into her arms again and whispered, \u201cHer advice is what<br \/>\n<em>she<\/em> would do, which told me what I <em>should not<\/em> do. That&#8217;s exactly why I asked her.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>The girl elbowed free and went to stand in front of the fire.<br \/>\n&#8220;But you made her mad! Please apologize!&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;She did that to herself, Dear. We&#8217;ve talked about this before, you and I.&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;Well, if you\u2019d followed her advice she wouldn&#8217;t be mad, so it&#8217;s all your fault.&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;I see.&#8221; Sis went to stand beside her. \u201cYou know quite well that anger is her way of<br \/>\ncontrolling people. And you also know The Mad belongs to her, because she&#8217;s the one<br \/>\nwho&#8217;s got it.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cIf you would just apologize, she would feel better and leave <em>me<\/em> alone.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cOh Sweetie, now you&#8217;re doing it.\u201d Sis took a deep breath and looked the girl in the<br \/>\neyes. &#8220;I haven&#8217;t done anything to apologize for, and I will not be manipulated by<br \/>\nsomeone else&#8217;s anger.&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;But you must! She&#8217;s so hard to live with when she&#8217;s mad!&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;Sweetie, it\u2019s not my mad. Not my problem. Not my business.&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>&#8220;But you don&#8217;t understand what she&#8217;s like!&#8221;<\/h5>\n<h5>Sis sighed and turned to study the girl. \u201cDear Heart, no one, and no thing, can make<br \/>\nsomeone else mad. The person feeling mad is the generator of their own feeling. Anger<br \/>\nis created by failed expectations, the need to be right, and ignorance. <em>The Mad<\/em> comes<br \/>\nfrom within the one who creates it.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cYou&#8217;ve got to be kidding! That is not true! How can you say such a thing?\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cSeems like you&#8217;re getting a bit angry over there. Going to blame me for how you\u2019re<br \/>\nfeeling?\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cNow you are <em>really<\/em> making me angry.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cI see you&#8217;ve learned to use emotional blackmail. Guess you sat at your mother&#8217;s knee<br \/>\ntoo long.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cThat&#8217;s not true! You <em>really<\/em> are the witch Mom says you are!\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>Sis smiled at the ready-to-spit-nails-girl standing next to her, and paused to think before<br \/>\nshe spoke.<\/h5>\n<h5>\u201cIf a witch can&#8217;t be manipulated; If a witch takes responsibility for creating her own<br \/>\nfeelings; If a witch knows what&#8217;s her business, and even more important, what is <em>not<\/em> her<br \/>\nbusiness; If a witch refuses to lie; If a witch gathers advice to help her make a decision;<br \/>\nThen, I guess my sister nailed it.\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>The girl paled, stepped back, seemed to shrink away from her aunt.<\/h5>\n<h5>Sis sat down and opened her arms. \u201cMy dearest girl, now, do you see why I am proud to be guilty as charged?\u201d<\/h5>\n<h5>\n08\/24\/18<\/h5>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/unseenreality.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/THE-MAD.pdf\">DOWNLOAD PDF<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WHERE DOES IT COME FROM? 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